Wednesday, 18 December 2013

Lemon Verbena & Mint Iced Tea recipe

This is a lovely refreshing tea to have on a hot summers day.

There are a couple of steps to making the tea and it is best prepared a day in advance.

Step One:

1/2 cup fresh lemon verbena leaves
1/2 cup fresh mint leaves
6 cups boiling water

Boil the water and pour over the verbena and mint leaves. Leave to sit over night in the fridge, or a couple of hours. Or if you like a weak tea let sit for 10 minutes - before straining.  Chill in fridge.

Step Two:

1/2 cup sugar
1/2 cup water

Combine sugar and water in a small saucepan, bring to the boil and cook for 1 minute, until sugar fully dissolves.

Step Three: 

1 cup lemon verbena leaves

Blanch verbena leaves in boiling water for 1 minute then plunge into cold water. Drain.

Step Four:

When sugar syrup is completely cooled, pour into a blender.  Add 1 cup blanched verbena leaves and process until smooth.  Cover and chill over night.

Step Five:

If you've left your tea to soak over night (step one), strain your tea into a large pouring jug.  Strain the sugar syrup through a fine sieve into pouring jug - adding lemon sugar to the tea mixture.

To serve:

Grab a tray of ice cubes and process in a blender or food processor into crushed ice.  Fill high wall glasses  half way with crushed ice and pour in lemon verbena mint tea.

Enjoy your refreshing chilled ice tea.

Tuesday, 10 December 2013

Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year! And a BIG FAT Thank YOU!!

As 2013 comes to an ends and a new year begins it's a time for reflection, for thinking of the new year ahead, being thankful the bad parts are over with, glad we got through them in one piece and being grateful for the good parts - and yes there were many.

As a small business with all the small business struggles it is always great to make it through another year and even better to be feeling hopeful for the upcoming year.  It couldn't have happened without your support and for that I am truly thankful *virtual hugs and kisses

Aside from my awesome customers and fans there are a number of businesses who have been fantastically supportive throughout the year:

These businesses generously donated goodies for our Gift Box giveaways -
  • Your Cheeky Monkey
  • Stunt Girls
  • Creative Mandie
  • TT Treasures
  • Rainbow Designs
  • Carma Living
These businesses believed in me -
  • Herbal Horse
  • Oz Baby Trends
These businesses helped me develop and grow -
  • Build a Little Biz
  • Ideapro
  • Romantic Flair Original
  • Easier Parenting
  • Cassie Lee, creative biz & life coach
To all of you I'm eternally grateful and I wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year 2104. May all your dreams come true!

Monday, 2 December 2013

Making Love Naturally & DIY Fanny Spray

Making love is a very natural thing and it doesn't cost a lot to do.  A fun activity to do on a budget.  I'm sure many of you will agree when I say foreplay is the bestest part.

Foreplay noun - sexual stimulation before intercourse.

Every couple or person has their own preference when it comes to foreplay, some like a lot, some like a little, others like role play or fun flirty games such as strip poker, spin the bottle, or even doing a strip tease.

These games can be played in a few ways.  Instead of stripping during poker the winning hand might ask the losing hand to do something to them, for example give them a kiss, rub their shoulders, massage their ankles.  This game can start off quit humble, leading to something much more awakening.

What ever the type of foreplay and love making you like there are a couple of products JOLI sell that are perfect for the job.

Massage oil for 1.  With eight different custom scents to choose from you are spoiled for choice and it goes without saying that foreplay and massage oil go hand in hand.

Natural Massage Oil
Soothing Slave for 2. Yes that's right.  Is there anything this salve can't do!  The salve can be used for clitoral stimulation - yes I said the 'c' word ;)

Skin Serum or Cuticle Oil for 3.  Either of these products can be drizzled over breasts for a gentle massage and if need be, because you're out of massage oil, they can also be used on genitals.

Soothing Salve
Luscious Body Butter for 4.  How nice would it be to have someone to rub moisturiser into your body and for you to reciprocate.  Maybe they rub the butter on your your shins, your ankles, your belly.  I'm in heaven thinking about it and this butter his perfect and sensual for all over body use.  Not suitable for face or genitals.

Just to name a few: though I can't forget to also add Moisturising Lip Balm and regular Lip Balm.  There might also be other products you've tried yourself that we could add to the list - feel free to share if you have.

I encourage you to get in the bedroom and fool around with the products listed above, maybe add some other products to the fun flirty list.

Foreplay can be a very under rated part of love making.  Using JOLI products can make it all the more tempting to enjoy!

NOTE: responses may vary from person to person, test small areas first and stop if these items aren't doing it for you.

DIY Fanny Spray recipe ~ aka home made Vanilla Perfume
You will need:
125ml spritz bottle
100ml water
25ml vodka
5 drops vanilla scent
4 drops jasmine scent
Coffee filter paper or paper towel
Glass jar (big enough to hold 125ml)

- Place all ingredients into a glass jar, shake well and place on bench top or counter to sit for two weeks.  Shake daily.  The alcohol in this recipe helps the scented oils amalgamate into the water.  It also acts as a preservative.  You can leave the alcohol out: if you do so you may have to shake contents before each use and the perfume won't last as long - store in the fridge to keep it longer.
- After two weeks place a funnel over your spritz bottle, place filter paper over funnel and pour in jar contents.  Filtering helps remove excess oil particles that haven't amalgamated.
- You can have a play around with different oils and scents.  Maybe you'd like to try coconut and lime.

- This perfume can be used to spray toilet paper before you wipe, or after wiping to clean and scent.  It can also be used to spray onto groin or undies to freshen up the area.

Wednesday, 27 November 2013

Clearing Out The Crap

chemicals in skin care
It may surprise you to know that I wasn't always a natural skin care guru!  Once upon a time I used the same dodgy stuff (i.e. chemical filled rubbish) as everyone else.

I used Australis foundation, The Body Shop's strawberry facial scrub (admittedly it was a gift), Clinique, Bio Oil, Nivea, Impulse, Gillette shaving foam and other brands of hair moose, deodorant and toothpaste.

Once upon a time I was as naive as the next person when it came to personal care products being FULL of harmful chemicals.  Without giving it a second thought I simply purchased these items and used them because: 1) TV and people told me to and 2) No-one advised me they weren't safe.

It's a simple mistake that many of us make.  The TV commercials make it look all so enticing.  Our friends use the products and swear by them.  Our mum's give us products to use in our teens and we continue to use them as adults.  Then we pass the same things onto our friends and children to use.

Much as teens and young adults (and even older adults) are doing today I was simply unaware of the dangers of chemicals in skin care.  Chemicals in products was not discussed among friends or on TV.  Even today with more hype about it than ever before there are still billions and gazillions of people unaware that the products they're using are harmful to themselves, the environment and their loved ones.  (And some people don't want to know about the dangers that lurk in their beauty products because it's easier to stay in the dark).

The above picture is of me cleaning my bathroom cabinet out a couple of years ago - and to be honest I really didn't have a great deal of nasty stuff, thankfully.  Then again one could argue that even one harmful product is one too many.

Here is a list of chemicals to look out for.  If your personal care (and cleaning products) contain any of these ingredients it's time for a fresh start!  Aside from skin care, if you want to know of other safe brands to use let me know and I'll be happy to give advice.

When did you first learn about hazardous chemicals in skin care?
Have you done a clean out of your bathroom cabinet to rid yourself of these badies?

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Wednesday, 13 November 2013

DIY Home Made Bread & Dip 3 Ways

There is something about a really good anti pesto platter that makes me salivate at the thought of it.  Especially if it's home grown organic produce.  Olives, dips, freshly baked bread, grapes, dolmades...  I could go on...

Home made bread & three dips
One of my favourite and Oh So Simple bread recipes is Beer Bread.  Made with 375ml beer (any type) and 2 1/2 cups self raising flour.  Told you it was simple!  All you do is mix the beer with the flour really well, pour into an oiled bread tin and bake for around 35mins at 180c.  After 35mins, drizzle some olive oil or butter over the top and bake for another 10mins.  You can also add olives, capers, sun dried tomatoes, garlic, capsicum and other tasty foods to the mix before baking.

Hummus Dip

400gm chick peas (soaked over night) or tinned chick peas
1-2 cloves garlic
1 tablespoons olive oil
1 tablespoon lemon juice
1 teaspoon paprika
2 teaspoons chives (finely cut)
salt & pepper to taste (optional)

Drain the chick peas.  Place all ingredients in a blender or food processor and mix into a paste.  Add more olive oil and/or lemon juice if mixture is too thick.
Serve with crackers or smeared on home made pieces of bread.

Parsley Pesto

I have loads of parsley growing in my garden and this is a simple recipe to make good use of that fresh parsley.

A good handful or two of parsley
1 tablespoon olive oil
1 teaspoon crushed garlic
1 tablespoon lemon juice
1 handful of pine nuts
1 handful of grated Parmesan cheese

Wash the parsley well and shake off excess water.  Place all ingredients in a blender or food processor and mix into a paste.  Add more olive oil and/or lemon juice if mixture is too thick.
Serve with crackers, smeared on home made bread, tossed through cooked pasta or as an accompaniment to any dish as a side, sauce or paste.

Olio Aceto

In a bowl drizzle equal portions of Balsamic vinegar and olive oil (about 1/2 a cup each).  Make sure it's a good brand of vinegar and oil.  If it's not a nice tasting brand it won't taste that good.
This is a really good dipping liquid for home made beer bread.  You can also add some chilli for a bit of spice.

Wednesday, 6 November 2013

Decolletage ~ A Neglected Body Part

Emily Symon plays Marilyn Chambers in Home and Away.  She is 44 years old and for all appearances looks to be in her mid 30's.  She is a stunning woman who has looked after her skin well, she barely looks a day older than when she first appeared on Home and Away.

Emily Symon

Like the rest of us, Emily will become prone to those creases we get on our decolletage above our breasts.  Sadly these creases are a natural part of aging and tend to show our true age regardless of how well we've looked after our skin. Primarily because our decolletage is a very neglected body part.  It's also one of those body parts we should look after the most!

How often do you ponder your decolletage?  How often do you do anything beauty related to yours?  Is it some long forgotten body part, sparing only a thought about what necklace to wear to cover it, or what top to wear to expose it?  Or do you think of your decolletage and pamper it often?

Your decolletage is one of those body parts, like your hands and elbows, that shows your age long before your face does.  Take notice of how many older ladies you know who have lovely skin, yet the skin on their neck and decolletage is wrinkled, dry and neglected.  Consider also our decolletage is quite often, if not all the time, exposed to wind, sun, water - which has a dramatic ageing effect.

decolletage shows your true age
Here are some easy pampering tips for you to indulge in to keep your decolletage looking its best.

1. Exfoliate your decolletage frequently.  Every 2nd or 3rd day or at least once a week.  This ensures the dead cells that build up on the surface of your skin are scrubbed away exposing fresh radiant more youthful skin.

2. Apply Toner to your decolletage, either in a spritz or dabbed onto a cotton ball and wiped cross your skin.  Toner tightens and refreshes your skin and cleans away daily grime.  Do this often!

3. Moisturise, moisturise, moisturise!  Very important.  Cannot stress this enough!  Moisturiser your decolletage (and neck) daily, even twice daily with a suitable moisturiser such as Whipped Cream to keep those creases at bay.  Before bed is also a good time to moisturise this area.

4. When going out for a special occasion or a night on the town dust some silver mica (or mineral makeup powder) onto your decolletage. The sparkle gives you a glowing youthful look with a touch of glamour, and helps disguise the creases.

5. Keep your decolletage covered up as much as possible - either high collared clothing, a scarf etc. - to limit the exposure to the elements and only exposure your decolletage on special occasions.

Do you have any decolletage tips you'd like to share with us. Please comment below. AND remember the reactions buttons x

Monday, 21 October 2013

DIY Aftershave Lotion

125ml spritz or splash bottle
 25ml vodka 
100ml water
5 drops sandalwood eo
3 drops bergamot eo
3 cedarwood eo
  • Place all ingredients in your bottle.  Attach lid and leave to sit on a windowsill for 2 weeks.  Shake daily.
  • After 2 weeks pour contents into a jar, rinse your bottle with warm water, place a coffee filter over the opening of your bottle and re-pour the contents into the bottle - filtering.
  • Aftershave lotion is now ready to use.
 The vodka in this recipe is a soft level alcohol that helps preserve the essential oils.  It also disinfects the skin and helps heal wounds should there be any shaving cuts.  It might sting a little when applied.  You can double the quantity of essential oils if you want a stronger scent.

Another useful product is Soothing Salve.  Apply to skin after shaving to relieve redness, wounds and in grown hairs.

Wednesday, 16 October 2013

Effects Being Sick Has On Your Skin

For the second time this year I found myself under the weather and bed ridden for three days.  On the one hand being ill only twice this year isn't so bad, then again... maybe twice is a bad sign of a poor immune system?

There I was sweating it out under the doona while my body waged a war with the invading virus.  Heating up the body causes the virus to die off, so I've heard, it cannot withstand hot temperatures.  Of course there is a fine line we don't want to cross since heating up our bodies too much can be a health hazard.  Still, I've always been one for the 'sweating it out' method.  Is this how you fight your viruses?

Both times I rose from my death bed (the hot sweating depths of my crumpled doona) to find my skin literally flaking and peeling off my face.  Reason being, in one word: dehydration!  It's hard to take care of your skin when you're fighting a virus and feel like you're dying (I've got my mum's voice in my ear saying "You're not dying, you'll live.")  It's a struggle just to get up and go to the toilet let alone have any semblance of looking after your skin, or even yourself.

Admittedly, get your violin out, in my household when I'm sick no-one comes to me and asks me if I need anything, a cup of tea? water?  So for the most part my lying in bed sweating it out was a lonely affair made extra special with delirious dreams about needing things to be in a line before I could feel better.  Plus the odd squabbling of my children whom I'd have to drag myself out of bed for to kind-of sort-of look after every now and again.

On the odd occasion that I did manage to drag myself into the kitchen for a cup of hot tea I was so sick I could barely swallow.  Point being, I didn't manage to drink a great deal during those bed ridden days, where as all that sweating it out was causing my body to lose vast amounts of H2O.  Much to the detriment of my skin.  Especially now that I'm getting older, I find the effects of dehydration much worse.

When I was finally up and at 'em or thereabouts I exfoliated the dead skin cells, followed by a gentle cleans then gave myself a good dose of Skin Serum to help regenerate and heal my sick skin.  My skin will now take a few days to recover from the effects of dehydration and again this takes longer as we age.
I also filled up a large water bottle with water and lemon juice ice cubes to drink.  It would be nice if the lemon water was provided to me by my loving caring family, and I will suggest this to them for next time, though I won't hold my breath.  Had I realised I would be struck down for a few days I'd have had the water bottle beside my bed at the ready.

In short being sick has a dehydrating effect on your skin and it is important to keep up your water levels when fighting a virus.

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Does your family take good care of you when you're sick?  Are you one of the lucky ones who has someone come in and ask you if you need anything or is your situation more like mine: you take care of everyone else while they forget about you when you're ill?

Monday, 2 September 2013

Body Image Guest Blog ~ You're Too Skinny

'You need to eat more, you're so skinny, I wish I was tiny like you and, you can have some of my fat' These are comments I hear on a daily basis. Exhausting just reading them is it not?
Crohns Disease is my daily affliction, it does not matter how much I eat. I am aware that I am anorexic. I wish I was at a healthy weight. And, sure cast  your extra weight my way, I would most definitely welcome it! 
These utterances  do not upset me as much as the actual glares and stares. I have heard larger ladies often speak  of the 'looks' they receive, tinier ladies also receive them, and they are just as injurious to our self esteem. The remarks and looks of disgust take an emotional toll on a person after a period of time. SO much so,  that for myself, I was agoraphobic for 4 LONG years. I did not want to egress from my home. I felt disgust and compunction at my body and the glares would  only confirm the hateful feelings and thoughts I was having towards my body and self. 
If a person is underweight or overweight, I think we should want to uplift them, mawkish them if you will! 
I am underweight, this does not mean I hate food (in fact, I love food with a passion), it does not mean that I do drugs (which is one of my personal favourite surmises) nor, does it mean I have a mental disorder. It simply means I have a disease,  one that I have little to no sovereignty over.  I am still the same person on the interior, even if my exterior looks as though I have an eating disorder!
I am thankful  for my disease (most days), it has made me a stronger person, made me 'slow down' what was a fast paced life, and really internalise and think about what is favourable for myself. 
I think you will find most people with a weight issue have a genuine underlying medical condition and cannot control their weight and mentally torture themselves enough, that it is not warranted or needed by others surrounding them. 
If someone is overweight or underweight, does it really matter? Does it affect your life? Is it your place to look on in disgust and an invitation for you to make judgements? No, it most definitely is not.
Just like an overweight individual might feel disgust with themselves, so do tinier people. A simple smile, or kind word, can change that persons day, from one of despair and utter hatred towards themselves, into making them believe in themselves and that it is going to be a magical day. 
Remember, everyone is beautiful, and true beauty runs much deeper than any external appearance.
~  Amanda Williamson

You might also like Guest Blog "Negative Self Talk" & "Body Dysmorphia"

Wednesday, 28 August 2013

Environmentally Friendly Menstruation

The curse, that time of the month, on your rags, Mr Red, flying the red flag, your 'friend' has come to visit, Aunt flo, iron drain, rivers run red, girlie time, red mayo, girl stuff, painter is in the house, riding the crimson wave, on the red, the red dragon, the red man, monthlies, out of action, have my girlies, 'it', fell on an axe, Mr P, ovaries exploding, I'm not pregnant this month.

What do you call your period?  I'm sure us women have a list of names we've given to our monthly cycle.  Feel free to share your names with us by leaving a comment on this blog.

A little while ago I read an article asking "Are you still using tampons and pads?"  The article talked about the chemicals in these items, as well as the costs and the waste.  Not environmentally friendly AT ALL!  Not to forget to mention these items are taxed as a luxury and the amount of money we spend on these items over our life time is crazy - roughly about 6-10K.

Of course it got me thinking of green alternatives.  So I purchased a Diva menstrual cup and reusable pads.  I got the menstrual cup from eBay (around $40) and the menstrual pads (around $11-$15 each) from and - though I found out after I purchased the cup that greenchickadee also sell them.
All items are washable and reusable so I can continue using them for a number of years which will save me a fair whack of money.

How do these items perform?

The menstrual cup plugs and catches discharge much like a tampon - without the toxins.  If you do leak occasionally - the menstrual cup becomes full or it wasn't inserted correctly - the reusable pads catch leaks.  The cup worked surprisingly well.  I thought it was going to leak all over the place, it doesn't.  There is a slight trick to inserting the cup (they come with instructions) and I put it in too far once, that was awkward and painful.  When first inserted each time it would feel obvious and sometimes feel like it was going to fall out (though that could just be me), however after a while I would forget it was there and all would be fine.  I did do some slight exercise too and the cup held up well.

The part I found trickiest to deal with is having to clean the cup. Once I had removed and emptied the cup over the toilet, I would have to waddle over to the sink with my pants around my knees (great imagery!) to wash the cup thoroughly, before waddling back to the loo to reinsert the thing.  Like I said, that was a bit tricky.

The pads were slightly tricky in that they don't stick to the knickers like over-the-counter ones and thus move a bit here and there - backwards, forwards and sideways.  However, leakage was minimal so this wasn't a major issue.  I recommend wearing the pads with very tight underpants that will hold the pad firmly in place.

All up I'd say it's slightly more complicated than using mainstream pads and tampons, though this is partly due to us being so accustomed to 'easy' options.  Both items worked very well, I didn't have any big spillages and, actually one thing I would say is, I didn't wake up in the middle of the with that "Oh oh!" feeling of having leaked all over the bed.

Have you made the switch to going green for your period?  Share your story with us.

P.S. - Changing the menstrual cup in a public toilet is slightly awkward.  They make a suction sound when being removed and this echos through the toilet, plus you can't go over to the counter to wash them in front of everyone (well maybe some could...), so it's a matter of tipping out the contents and reinserting.

Monday, 26 August 2013

DIY Easy Tonic Water For Skin

tonic water
This simple Tonic Water can be used for a number of things.

1. If you don't have any toner on hand use this tonic water.
2. To give your arm pits or 'good bits' a quick spruce.
3. Wipe over your Deodorant to refresh the surface of your roll on bar.
4. Give your feet a quick once over to freshen them up.
5. Cleanse your hands.

I'm sure you can find a number of other general uses for this tonic water. 
The essential oils chosen have antibacterial properties.

You will need:
125ml bottle
125ml water
4 drops of tea tree OR orange essential oil.

Fill bottle up with water and add essential oil.  Shake well before each use.

spritz bottle

TIP: store your tonic water in a spritz bottle (above) so you can spray your face, as an aftershave lotion, under your arms, your chest, your groin, shoes, feet, and even your Deodorant roll on - for antibacterial properties.

Clearing A Breakout

For the past week I've set myself a strict routine of exfoliating, cleansing, toning and moisturising nightly (exfoliating every 2-3 days) whether I wore makeup or not.  I'd gotten lazy and was thinking I it didn't matter if I cleansed and moisturised daily.  But trust me when I say it does matter!   

Good skin begins with a great skin care routine.

1.  Started off dabbing some Whipped Cream on my face, rubbed the cream in, left it for a few minutes before washing it away with a wet face washer - use warm/hot water not cold.  This is to clean away the makeup.

Using moisturiser to remove makeup
 2. Did the same for my eyes using Fluffy Lime Eye Cream.  Giving myself that punched in the eyes look (always attractive).
Removing eye makeup
3. Exfoliated using Enliven Facial Scrub.  This alleviates flaky skin, removes dry dead skin cells and clears the pores of potential blockages.

4. Cleansed using Facial & Body Wash.  The essential oils in the cleanser (I use oily blend) control oil secretion and kill bacteria - a very important part of tackling blemishes and wounds on the skin.

5. The most important step is the one most people forget, ignore and don't do: TONER.  A highly underrated step. Using Purifying Cleansing Toner rinses the skin clean, removes any left over residue of makeup and cleanser and closes pores, very important for having clean and clear skin.

Toner is the key to clean and clear skin

6. Applied Skin Serum to affected areas to heal the skin, wounds and scabbing. Very important as this reduces scaring and wound/blemish time.

7.  Moisturise to hydrate the skin and stop those pesky dry flaking bits of skin.

8. Lastly applied Fluffy Lime Eye Cream around my eyes to ward off crows feet.

9. Ok... lastly I applied a dash of lip balm because I love soft glossy lips and like to feel a dash of glamour.   

If you're suffering through bad looking skin... try this daily routine for two weeks and see the difference it makes to your skin.  Then keep your fabulous routine going!

* Note: Steps 1 & 2 were only done to remove makeup. When not wearing makeup move straight on to step 3 if you prefer.

Wednesday, 14 August 2013

Things that bother me about Facebook - there I said it

When I joined Facebook Saturdays and Friday nights were busy days and I'd miss all the fun because I'm not on the computer on the weekends. Nowadays Saturdays are quiet.  In the past few weeks/months I have notice a serious decline in the number of people interacting on Facebook.

I'd say that many others are feeling the same way.  It seems a vast amount of people are using Facebook less and less because they're not happy with how it works.  I would love to know behind the scenes to see how many people are leaving Facebook.
What the stats are.

I know the switch to timeline happened a long time ago, yet it still bothers me to this day.  I am not a fan of the two columns on either pages or profiles.

Dislike that anyone who looks us up can see our cover photo and can flip through our cover photo album - it isn't private and there is no way to make it private (which is why I refuse to have a cover photo).  The privacy settings are complicated - we all like easy.  Not to mention ticker and subscribe to this person.  Yuk!

One of the things that bothers me the most (as I'm sure it does others) is that people I don't know can comment on photos I've tagged my friends in.  Hate tagging and being tagged for this reason.  I preferred it much better if those who could see photos I've posted (bad enough) could at least not comment on a photo of someone they're not friends with.  And I liked it better when people couldn't comment on pages they haven't liked either.

People mass tag me in comments they've made on their profile and there is no way to un-tag myself.  Notifications that people have comment on said tagged post will plague me until the conversation dies.  It's nice people think of me, yet at least (Facebook) give me the option to un-tag myself.

Also most resent keeps changing back to top stories.  Let me choose which one I want to keep it set as!

The content on Facebook is disturbing and I've seen too many things I would never have seen otherwise.  I hate to think how many other people (young children/teens) are in the same boat *insert sad face :(

Technically there are a number of things I am disgruntled with. 
I cannot move photos into different albums - in particular from Timeline to another album on my page.  Can no longer choose which photo will be album cover.  Cannot find a list of pages I've liked to maintain them.  Instead I get other page suggestions!  Not only that there is always a notifications number next to my JOLI page even when I have no new notifications - deceiving.

Pages freezing is also another thing plaguing me.  Each time I click on anything on Facebook it refreshes, freezes and tells me it's (not responding) before finally loading up.  If I've had Facebook open for a while, while doing something else such as watching a video it hangs when I re-click and move the mouse over Facebook.  This happens on my personal computer too which makes me think it's not a browser thing.  Plus my page takes so long to load whenever I visit it and if I start typing too soon it deletes comments I've started to write and I have to rewrite them.  Trouble is I think the page has loaded when it's still going - slowly. 

Meanwhile I've been deleting photos and albums.  Slowly removing and being choosy about the content I share.  I've met many awesome inspiring and outright gorgeous people on Facebook and discovered some wonderful businesses and built up business associates.  Some thing I wouldn't have otherwise been able to do without Facebook.  

All the changes and fixing things that aren't broke - while not fixing things that are broke - is getting on my goat (must look up where that saying comes from).  I, too, will become yet another of those people using Facebook less and less.

Are you one of those disgruntled with Facebook?  Leave a comment and tell me all about it :)

Wednesday, 7 August 2013

Cleopatra Did It Naturally, So Can YOU

Cleopatra VII was an intelligent and charismatic, enticing and very alluring woman. It is said that she had the most beautiful skin with a very comprehensive beauty regime. 

The types of ingredients she used for her skin care were sea salt, frankincense oil, honey, milk, apple cider vinegar, clay, herbs, aloe and beeswax - just to name a few. 

There was no agiraline, propylene glycol, AHA, DEA, SLS, mineral oil or any other man made synthetic ingredient and she looked amazing! 

It is a myth that these new fangdangle ingredients make products more luxurious or better for you and your skin. In fact the opposite is true, when you use natural skin care the results are better and last longer

JOLI want you to have the luxury Queen Cleopatra had, natural skin care designed to have your skin looking amazing and you feeling luxuriously pampered!

Some products Queen Cleopatra would have loved to indulge in:  

Bath Salts Serenity

Rose Milk Bath Soak
Skin Serum
Rich Cream Moisturiser

Deluxe Bath Serum

Sunday, 4 August 2013

September Gift Box GIVEAWAY!!


Winner will receive a gift box full of gorgeous goodies valued at over $100 (details below)

~ You might be familiar with the TV commercials where someone hands someone a wrap or burger (shows how much I'm paying attention) and the quotes are about making the best of a BAD situation; your newly single status, didn't get the promotion again, I took the credit for your work. ~

For this comp - Yes... you'll have to participate to WIN!! - JOLI would like you to tell us what bad (aka: can be seen as humorous/positive) situation you need congratulating, thank your, sorry for putting up with.

e.g. maybe you need it for:
Your baby's first poo smearing all over their room.
Your child pooing in the bath.
Your dog/cat urinating in your favourite shoes...

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Tuesday, 30 July 2013

Feet ~ A Neglected Body Part

Our tootsie (aka feet) are a largely neglected part of our body.  Most of the time it's too much effort to bend down all that way to take care of something we cover up in shoes majority of the time.  Or we don't care, or we hate touching feet.  There are many reasons why feet are so neglected.

  • So how about some quick and easy things to do do your feet to spruce them up.
Scrub brush - apply your favourite soap or shower gel to a body brush and and give your toes a good scrub.  This helps clean under the nail and have your toes smelling good.

Wash -  using a 10c size squirt of Facial & Body Wash lather all over tootsies thoroughly before rinsing off.

Exfoliate -squeeze a 5c piece of exfoliating scrub onto your palm and rub the lotion into the heels of your foot thoroughly, then rinse off.  Repeat for other foot.

Smell nice - drip a prop of cypress, eucalyptus, lemon or tea tree essential oil on the top of your foot and massage in.  You can add a drop or two of one of these essential oils to 10ml carrier oil and massage into feet.
  • If you want to get a little more pampering:
Soak - fill a bucket about 1/4 - 1/2 full of warm to hot water.  Add a good dash of Bath Salts Unwind.  They essential oils in this blend leave feet smelling good and soothe your tootsies.

Moisturise - whether you use Luscious Body Butter, Rich Cream Moisturiser or even Massage Oil, massage some moisturiser on the heels of your feet before you hop in to bed.

Sunday, 21 July 2013

Lemon Curd / Butter Recipe - DIY

You will need:
185g butter, chopped
2 cups (440g) caster sugar
200ml lemon juice
1 teaspoon lemon rind
3-4 eggs, beaten, strained


Combine all ingredients in top half of double saucepan or in heatproof bowl.
Stir over simmering water until mixture is fully melted, dissolved, thickened and mixture coats the back of a wooden spoon.
Pour into hot sterilised jars; seal while hot.  *Strain if there are any eggy lumps in mixture.

Makes about 3 cups (750ml) - Recipe best made a day in advance.

Recipe from: The Australian Women's Weekly Cookbook

Thursday, 4 July 2013

Looking After Baby Naturally.

How Precious is Your Baby’s Skin?

Parents are very protective when it comes to their newborn babies.  They don’t want anything bad happening to their precious new family member and work hard at keeping baby safe and content.  Parents like to alleviate symptoms such as cradle cap, colic, nappy rash etc.  Parents keep baby content by bathing baby, changing nappies, feeding and burping baby, giving baby soothing massages and giving lots of cuddles and kisses.  

When it comes to caring for baby parents want effective products that work, but what about products that are also SAFE?
Many products on the market aimed specifically for baby contain chemicals and ingredients that are not at all safe or protective of baby’s tender soft skin.  Products often contain ingredients that are known skin irritants, plus chemicals in products are absorbed into baby’s skin and blood stream - this is not good for your precious newborn baby. 

Some ingredients to look out for are:
Propylene glycol
Sodium laurel or laureth sulphate
Mineral oil
Mineral and petroleum based ingredients are made from crude oil (the same place car oil comes from) and dehydrate skin.  Parabens, fragrance, propylene glycol and SLES are known skin irritants, known to exacerbate if not cause skin conditions such as eczema, psoriasis, dermatitis and dry skin.

Here are ‘ingredients’ contained in some baby care products (with out mentioning brand names)

Baby Lotion:
Water, Propylene Glycol, Myristyl Myristate, Glyceryl Monosterarate, Oleic Acid, Stearic Acid, Polysorbate, Alkyl Benzoate, Dimethicone, Isopropyl Palmitate, sorbitan Stearate, Cetyl Alcohol, Syntheic Beeswax, Stearyl Alcohol, Benzyl Alcohol, carbomer, fragrance, methylparaben, propylparaben, butylparaben, sodium hydroxide, red #33.

Daily Baby Lotion:
Ingredients: Glycerin, Allantoin, Benzyl alcohol, Distearyldimonium chloride, Isopropyl palmitate, Sodium chloride, Water, Petrolatum, Dimethicone, Cetyl alcohol, Oat flour.

As you can see there are some iffy ingredients in the above products.  Check your baby care products right now and see what types of ingredients they contain.  Are they safe enough to use on your precious baby?

If you compare the above ingredients to the FULL LIST of ingredients used in JOLI Natural Skin Care products you will notice JOLI's range does not contain any of the above mentioned hazardous ingredients.

When is comes to safe skin care how precious IS your baby’s skin, or your friend’s baby’s skin, your nieces, nephews, grandsons and grand-daughters?  Precious enough to stop using baby care with known skin irritants and switching to a natural alternative?  Pure, natural, safe and effective products to use on baby’s tender skin.

P.S. You might also like to read this previous post about which brands “Test on Animals”.

Visit our website to get your natural baby care products and if you have any questions JOLI is only too happy to assist. 

Thursday, 20 June 2013

Store Bought vs Natural Skin Care - Shelflife

A general rule of thumb is: if it sits on a store shelf there is usually (always) something in the product(s) that make this possible. Usually it is synthetic preservatives and a mix of hazardous chemicals.  At best it is a low lever alcohol or sodium based ingredient.

The main reason for these preservatives is so products can be stored (sitting on shelves) for long periods of time before being opened.  Also so products can be stabilized (i.e. unaffected by heat, cold, bright lights etc) and shipped world wide; because the aim of the game with cosmetic corporations is world wide domination to increase consumer consumption.

JOLI Natural Skin Care products cannot be found in stores for this very reason, they don't contain all those skin irritating additives.  Though you may be wondering does this mean JOLI products are inferior to store bought products.  Will they not last as long?

It might surprise to you know that store bought products don't last as long as you think once opened.  All skin care and cosmetics have 'use by / best before' dates (whether they're included on the labeling or not).  And how one person uses and stores a product differs to the next which means these dates can vary from person to person.  It all depends on how you treat your products.  Sharing with a friend or using a product on an infection (conjunctivitis, cold-sores) for example can reduce the product shelf life.

General* period mainstream products last after opening:
Perfume - up to 3 years
Powders, eyeshadow, blush - 1 to 3 years
Foundation - 1 to 3 years
Sunscreen lotion, SPF cosmetics – up to 1 year [one season only]
Bronzer – 6 months
Lipstick, lip gloss – 1 year
Pencil liners, eyes, lips, eyebrow - from 6 to 12 months
Liquid eyeliner - from 3 to 4 months
Mascara - 3 to 6 months
Skin care products, moisturiser, anti-wrinkle, eye creams, sealed container with dispenser - about 1 year
Skin care products in a jar - from 6 to 10 months
Nail polish - 1 year
Natural/Organic products – up to 6 months

*This information may vary depending on your source. Info from:

You might have a mascara, eye liner, lipstick or moisturiser that you've had sitting around for over 10years thinking it looks alright therefore is still OK to use.  To look at the product you can't see any bacteria growing and that is the beauty (or not) of all the chemicals added to skin care and cosmetics.  All those toxins hide any signs of an ageing product.

JOLI products aren't any less superior than store bought products.  JOLI products contain natural blends of herbal extracts and essential oils, as well as antioxidants, to preserve.  Depending on how you use and store your products they can last for up to 12months, and if refrigerated products can last up to 3 years.  Below is a Recommended Use By list for natural skin care products.  These RUB dates depend on how you use and store your products, they also depend on you using the products as designed - i.e. daily, every 2 - 3 days, twice daily etc. 

Bubble Bath Crumble Bar
Bath Salts Bliss
6 - 8
Bath Salts Serenity
6 - 8
Bath Salts Unwind
6 - 8
Deluxe Bath Serum
6 - 8
Deodorant Bar
Soothing Salve
Enliven Facial Scrub
Fluffy Lime Eye Cream
Facial & Body Wash
Fancy Cuticle Oil
Hair Styling Wax
6 - 8
Heavenly Bath Milk
4 - 6
Light Moisturiser
6 - 8
Lip Balm
Luscious Body Butter
6 - 12
Massage Oil
Moisturising Lip Balm
Purifying Cleansing Toner
Rich / Whipped Moisturiser
8 - 12
Rose Milk Bath Soak
4 - 6
Skin Serum
3 - 6

Keep in mind if you still have products sitting around unused after a some time then you've either most likely not been using them in accordance with directions or you didn't like the product enough to use it often.  Time to discard all those old out-of-date products and start afresh.  

Wednesday, 12 June 2013

What Causes Cancer

Recently I asked the question: If you had cancer or thought you might get it what are some of the things you would avoid because you think they might cause cancer?

I wanted to see the types of things people associate with cancer, especially after my little blurb about pink washing and the statement: "many of the people who attend or participate in these (cure for cancer) events USE products laden with chemicals."

Here are some of the things people listed:

Fire retardant products
Air fresheners
Spray on cleaners
Dry-cleaning ones (trichloroethylene and perchloroethylene, or PERC)
New no-iron linens and drapes (may release formaldehyde)
Processed meat
Lack of ventilation in the home
Unfiltered water
Cooking (charcoaling) meat - it becomes carcinogenic
Chemicals in our food
Fast food
Package / ready made food

3 or more alcoholic beverages (a day / a week?)
Eating out of aluminum packaging
Eating / drinking out of plastic packaging - plastic bottles
Cooking in the microwave 

No more than 3 servings of red meat per week (I've heard it should be no more than 1 serving per week)
Daily exercise
Low alcohol consumption
Low fat diet / keep weight down
NO cigarettes
Keep exposure to chemicals at a minimum

There are some very good points raised and many things people are aware of which is great.  Air fresheners can kill pet birds and cause asthma so they can't be good for us to breathe in.  Meat and even fresh vegetables contain chemicals and hormones.  Drying cleaning chemicals are hazardous to our health, as are plastics and aluminum.

Interestingly... no one mentioned skin care or cosmetics which I find fascinating.  Considering skin care and cosmetics are multi billion [1,000,000,000+] dollar industries, meaning we BUY AND USE HUGE amounts of these chemical laden products, I would hazard a guess that we expose ourselves to more chemicals via skin care and beauty products than anywhere else (though this is supposition, not fact). 

Here is what our resident scientist explains about cancer:

"Every cell in the body has an oncogene that controls the rate and number of times that a cell can replicate. Each time a cell replicates, it loses a little bit of its oncogene, so the oncogene is like a fuse – when the fuse reaches zero, the cell cannot replicate anymore. Old age manifests itself when a sufficient amount of cells have ‘timed out’ and cannot replicate anymore.

Cancerous cells have a malfunctioning oncogene that allows the cells to replicate indefinitely at an uncontrolled rate limited only by the amount of energy the cancer cells can rob from the body. Often, these cancerous cells do not have a well defined form. For example, cancer cells growing in muscle tissue will not be muscle cells but rather an amorphous lump in the middle of the healthy tissue.

The problem with the idea of finding a ‘cure’ for cancer is that cancers are constantly evolving. Thus, even if a genuine cure was found today, it would be useless ten years from now (possibly even sooner). When healthy tissue undergoes a genetic change, this will only be an evolutionary improvement if it helps the healthy tissue to survive for longer. However, because cancer cells can already survive indefinitely (assuming an indefinite supply of energy and nutrients), any deformity in cancer cells will potentially benefit those cells by affording resistance to anti-cancer treatment. Therefore, not only is cancer constantly evolving, it can evolve faster than any healthy tissue, and faster than science.

Many have sought for the illusive ‘fountain of youth’, a substance or treatment that prevents the cells from aging (i.e. the oncogenes never time out). However, we already have the fountain of youth… it is cancer. Unfortunately this fountain of youth will kill by a means other than old age. What scientists should be searching for is not a way to stop cancer but a way to control it.

As for drawing a cell, it is like a round egg with a soft shell, filled with fluid (mainly water) with a mass of proteins and genetic material in its centre." 

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What things do you avoid so that you won't get cancer?  What things do think cause cancer?  Love to hear your views.